Dear bleaker,
Thank you for showing us exactly what you should never do under any circumstances whatsoever. Not only did you not use protection, but you also lost your virginity to the most non supportive narcissistic prick of a person ever. Based off your extremely evident lack of self-respect you need a girl who can support you emotionally because let’s face it you clearly can’t do that yourself. You let this girl push you around even though you are good to her and the second she realizes that you were the best thing that ever happened to her, you let her come right back to you. Obviously this shows a lot of forgiveness on your end, but it also shows her that you’re easily manipulated, which being that she’s clearly extremely narcissistic she will take advantage of. Now back to the even bigger problem, not using a condom, what the hell dude? Like ok so you didn’t want to use a condom, great, are you ready for a pregnancy? No. There’s other stuff you can do besides the act specifically. I’m not going to go into detail, but you didn’t have to do the do. I digress, there is so much that you had going for you and you did a great job of avoiding the wrench that you threw into all that so I guess it doesn’t matter. Have a nice life.
Yours truly,
Spencer Malone